Fridays are for Feminism: the birth of "full of yourself"

I used to be obsessed with making the perfect milk shake that would bring ALL the boys to the yard...

When I was 20, I had a friend who swore up and down that his job was to keep my head from getting too big. He would comment on my confidence, calling it arrogance. He would crush my self esteem (and my dreams) and I was convinced he was truly, helping me out. 

I was so sure that this dance between us both was adding VALUE to my life, that he was doing me…